{"id":1806,"date":"2022-03-25T11:05:08","date_gmt":"2022-03-25T11:05:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/linksus.net\/ukraine-upsetting-news-and-mental-health-how-to-talk-to-loved-ones-medical-news-today\/"},"modified":"2022-03-25T11:05:08","modified_gmt":"2022-03-25T11:05:08","slug":"ukraine-upsetting-news-and-mental-health-how-to-talk-to-loved-ones-medical-news-today","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/linksus2.linksus.net\/index.php\/2022\/03\/25\/ukraine-upsetting-news-and-mental-health-how-to-talk-to-loved-ones-medical-news-today\/","title":{"rendered":"Ukraine, upsetting news, and mental health: How to talk to loved ones &#8211; Medical News Today"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Empathy for the plight of the people of Ukraine is entirely natural and appropriate. But the constant stream of upsetting news can harm the mental well-being of vulnerable individuals, such as children and people who have lived through their own traumatic events. Medical News Today asked psychotherapists for advice about how to discuss distressing news sensitively.<br \/>We live in an age when anyone wielding a smartphone in a war zone can show the rest of the world exactly what is happening. The technology makes it harder for state-controlled media to conceal the truth and helps to hold both sides of the conflict to account. <br \/><strong>But the barrage of distressing stories and images on social media and television can also harm the mental well-being of vulnerable individuals.<\/strong><br \/>\u201cThe war in Ukraine has triggered strong emotions, such as anger, fear, worry, confusion, and anxiety,\u201d said <a rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/gb\/contributors\/yamila-lezcano-lmhc\" target=\"_blank\" class=\"content-link css-1pg8eb5\">Yamila Lezcano<\/a>, a licensed mental health counselor (LMHC), psychology professor at Albizu University in Miami, FL, and program director of the Miami Mental Health Awareness Initiative. <br \/>\u201cThe thought of war in another country, although distant from the United States, can still be overwhelming for many and lead to safety concerns about their own lives,\u201d she told <em>Medical News Today<\/em>.<br \/>\u201cThe prospect of war is an extremely unpleasant and intimidating topic for most of us, as it reminds us that we are unable to control much of what happens in the world,\u201d observed <a rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" href=\"https:\/\/yaldasafaimd.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" class=\"content-link css-1pg8eb5\">Yalda Safai, MD,<\/a> a psychiatrist in New York, NY.<br \/>\u201cWhen uncertainty strikes, people imagine worst-case scenarios, which can lead to feelings of helplessness and anxiety,\u201d she said.<br \/>Acknowledging the situation in Ukraine is of crucial importance, as is talking about it with your loved ones in a supportive and sensitive way.<br \/>According to Lezcano, the best way to help vulnerable adults who are feeling anxious about the conflict is to acknowledge their feelings and support them in finding ways to cope.<br \/>\u201cListening and communicating nonjudgmentally is essential, as it helps the person feel heard and understood while not being judged,\u201d she said. <br \/>\u201cThis can facilitate talking freely about their issues and asking for help if they need it,\u201d she added.<br \/>Aivigail Lev, the founder and director of the <a rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" href=\"https:\/\/bayareacbtcenter.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" class=\"content-link css-1pg8eb5\">Bay Area CBT Center<\/a> in San Francisco and Oakland, CA, said it was important to be honest about the situation in Ukraine.<br \/><strong>\u201cWe can\u2019t protect people from what\u2019s happening in the world,\u201d she said. \u201cSugarcoating the situation won\u2019t help.\u201d<\/strong><br \/>\u201cLet them know you are there to help them process their feelings,\u201d advised Joe Vaccaro, PsyD, executive director of <a href=\"https:\/\/www.newporthealthcare.com\/?utm_source=medicalnewstoday&#038;utm_medium=referral\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" class=\"content-link css-1pg8eb5\">Newport Healthcare<\/a> in Orange County, CA.<br \/>\u201cGet involved in outdoor, stress-reducing activities together \u2014 like going on walks during your conversations,\u201d he added.<br \/>He also suggested encouraging them to seek out meditation and mindfulness as tools to manage anxiety.<br \/>News from Ukraine may be particularly upsetting for those who have traumatic memories related to war. Keep in mind that trauma survivors are often overwhelmed by their feelings, said Lezcano.<br \/>\u201c[Tell them] that they are not alone in their feelings and that it is common for many people to express distress after a trauma occurs, especially when certain situations, such as the war in Ukraine, could serve as triggers,\u201d she said. <br \/>\u201cSocial support is a protective factor in helping those vulnerable adults feel safe and connected with people who genuinely care about them,\u201d she emphasized.<br \/>\u201cThe news coming from Ukraine is distressing for viewers of all ages but may be especially difficult for children and adolescents,\u201d said <a href=\"https:\/\/advances.massgeneral.org\/contributors\/contributor.aspx?id=1466\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" class=\"content-link css-1pg8eb5\">Aude Henin, Ph.D.,<\/a> co-director of Child Cognitive Behavior Therapy Program at Massachusetts General Hospital in Boston.<br \/>\u201cWhen deciding whether to raise the topic of Ukraine with [young people], parents can follow the child\u2019s lead and ask about what the child knows,\u201d she said. <br \/><strong>\u201cWith very young children, it may be best not to raise the topic unless the child brings it up,\u201d she added.<\/strong><br \/><a href=\"https:\/\/www.mindpath.com\/staff\/brandy-porche-lpc\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" class=\"content-link css-1pg8eb5\">Brandy Porche<\/a>, a licensed professional counselor with <a href=\"https:\/\/www.mindpath.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" class=\"content-link css-1pg8eb5\">Mindpath Health<\/a> based in Dallas, TX, said:<br \/>\u201cNo matter your child\u2019s age, do not share war stories before bed, as war is never an appropriate bedtime story. [\u2026] Whatever your tone, your child will mimic it in spirit. If you are afraid and your voice reflects that, your child will be afraid. It\u2019s OK to convey concern and empathy. But please do not convey anger or anxiety because this transfers to the child.\u201d<br \/><a rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" href=\"https:\/\/www.pathlightbh.com\/center-leadership\/toya-roberson-moore\" target=\"_blank\" class=\"content-link css-1pg8eb5\">Dr. Toya Roberson-Moore,<\/a> Child and Adolescent Psychiatrist, <a rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" href=\"https:\/\/www.pathlightbh.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" class=\"content-link css-1pg8eb5\">Pathlight Mood &#038; Anxiety Center<\/a>, advised: <br \/>\u201cKids will have questions about what\u2019s going on in Ukraine. Encourage them to develop their critical thinking skills and to engage thoughtfully in current events \u2014 while simultaneously navigating their emotions in a healthy, safe, and productive way.\u201d<br \/>\u201cWith less life experience and independence than adults, young adults and adolescents also need help navigating news about the crisis,\u201d said Amanda Fialk, Ph.D., LCSW, partner, and chief clinical officer at <a rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" href=\"https:\/\/thedorm.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" class=\"content-link css-1pg8eb5\">The Dorm<\/a> in New York, NY, which provides psychological support for young adults.<br \/><strong>\u201cParents should listen, be authentic, ask open-ended questions, and validate the feelings that their child is expressing,\u201d said Dr. Fialk.<\/strong><br \/>\u201cLet your kids know it is OK to feel sad, worried, scared, and angry at this situation,\u201d she added.<br \/>\u201cAcknowledge the negative but focus on positive stories in your discussions,\u201d advised Dr. Vaccaro. \u201cTalk about organizations that are helping people in need and young people that are passionate about peace, for example,\u201d he said.<br \/>\u201cFor those already [experiencing] generalized anxiety, the prospect of an unstable world can seem like a catastrophic event,\u201d said Dr. Safai. \u201cIf your loved ones fall into this category, avoiding the topic altogether might be in their benefit.\u201d<br \/>For all others, however, she said it was important to engage in educational conversation.<br \/>\u201cWhether you decide to bring up the heavy topic of war at the next family gathering, remember to break the habit of ruminating on bad outcomes, avoid catastrophizing, and maintain a balanced perspective.\u201d <br \/>\u2013 Dr. Safai<br \/>\u201cEncourage your loved one to acknowledge their boundaries when it comes to consuming news\/social media during this time \u2014 whether that means limiting screen time altogether, turning off news notifications, etc.,\u201d advised Dr. Vaccaro.<br \/><strong>\u201cInstead of \u2018doom scrolling\u2019 when they are feeling anxious, encourage them to get outside! Being outdoors and breathing fresh air can reduce stress and anxiety,\u201d he said.<\/strong><br \/>People should be wary of the temptation to ease their anxiety with alcohol or other substances, said <a rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" href=\"https:\/\/crossroadsofsonv.com\/project\/dave-marlon-ceo\/\" target=\"_blank\" class=\"content-link css-1pg8eb5\">Dave Marlon<\/a>, former CEO of <a rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" href=\"https:\/\/crossroadsofsonv.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" class=\"content-link css-1pg8eb5\">CrossRoads<\/a> of Southern Nevada, substance misuse treatment center, and co-founder and CEO of <a rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" href=\"https:\/\/vegasstronger.org\/\" target=\"_blank\" class=\"content-link css-1pg8eb5\">Vegas Stronger<\/a>. <br \/>\u201cHaving empathy for the people suffering the atrocities of war occurring in Ukraine is natural and appropriate,\u201d he said. \u201cCoping with the worry and sadness by increasing your consumption of alcohol and other drugs is not a healthy response.\u201d<br \/><a class=\"css-onvglr\" data-event=\"engagement|bottom page content promo click|\/articles\/psychology-of-disaster-management-how-we-react-in-turbulent-times;engagement|bottom page content promo click index|1\" data-element-event=\"INTERNAL LINK|FOOTER|Any Page|Read This Next|LINK|Psychology of disaster management: How we react in turbulent times|rn0\" href=\"\/articles\/psychology-of-disaster-management-how-we-react-in-turbulent-times\" data-testid=\"text-link\" aria-hidden=\"true\" tabindex=\"-1\">In this Special Feature, we look at the psychological aspects of disaster management and outline action points for mental health during troubling\u2026<\/a><br \/><a class=\"css-onvglr\" data-event=\"engagement|bottom page content promo click|\/articles\/climate-change-and-mental-health-expert-tips-on-how-to-cope;engagement|bottom page content promo click index|2\" data-element-event=\"INTERNAL LINK|FOOTER|Any Page|Read This Next|LINK|Climate change and mental health: Expert tips on how to cope|rn1\" href=\"\/articles\/climate-change-and-mental-health-expert-tips-on-how-to-cope\" data-testid=\"text-link\" aria-hidden=\"true\" tabindex=\"-1\">In this special feature, MNT explore not only the direct effects of climate change on mental health, but also the importance of building resilience\u2026<\/a><br \/><a class=\"css-onvglr\" data-event=\"engagement|bottom page content promo click|\/articles\/herbs-for-anxiety;engagement|bottom page content promo click index|3\" data-element-event=\"INTERNAL LINK|FOOTER|Any Page|Read This Next|LINK|9 herbs for anxiety|rn2\" href=\"\/articles\/herbs-for-anxiety\" data-testid=\"text-link\" aria-hidden=\"true\" tabindex=\"-1\">Anxiety medications can cause unwanted side effects, so some people consider herbal remedies as alternatives. 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